Lacking In Substance

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Have you ever felt like your holidays were more empty than festive? It seems many feel that way. Tis the season when we are told that we are supposed to be happy. We're supposed to have a holly jolly Christmas. Life is supposed to be cheery and bright. And yet, for many this is the least wonderful time of the year.

I use to associate Christmas with a number of very negative life events. My parents announced their divorce during a Christmas trip to grandma's house. That year felt like over the river and through the woods to total devastation we go. As a teen I totaled my mom's car right before Christmas. A year or two later I watched my mom cry after receiving my first college report card. I wish I had gotten to the mailbox first that day. For a while it seemed as if my Decembers were cursed, marked by failures and tragedies enough to make anyone have a blue Christmas.

This might sound odd for a Christian to say but for many years I found nothing of  substance in celebrating the birth of our Lord. I was too encumbered with Christmas past to get anything out of the holiday. I did all the things I thought I was supposed to in order to honor Jesus but there was always something missing. My focus was on doing what others said was necessary. Meanwhile I was treading water waiting for the next big wave, in fear it might be the one in which I drowned. The pageantry of my religion only made matters worse.

It took something greater than religion to turn things around in my life. It took a relationship with the One whom we celebrate as being born in a manger on the first Christmas Day. I discovered His offer as described in the narrative of the nativity. Because Jesus was born and because He died on a cross, being resurrected on the third day, we have the opportunity to share in a relationship with the creator of the entire universe. The celebration of Christmas is the celebration of God's love and of the fact that He wants us to walk with Him daily. It is the celebration of Christian adoption by which we can call, "Abba, Father," knowing that He hears and cares.

No, life's problems did not go away. But now in all situations I have hope based on my relationship with God. When I am sad or overwhelmed I have something more than just religious practice to which to turn. I can turn and seek the glory of God knowing He responds with open arms. It is in His love that my life and the things I get to do around Christmas become substantial. Knowing we celebrate the birth of my closest friend makes the season grand.

God Shows Mercy From The Start

God warned Adam that in the day he ate from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil he would die. In doing so God established ground rules which still apply today. As in the garden the punishment for disobedience (sin) is death. Is Adam's survival after eating a sign that God got it wrong? But we teach that God never makes mistakes. How is it that Adam ate and did not die? I believe two things happened during and after the fall: Adam suffered spiritual death and God was merciful.

Genesis 3:1-7

Adam did continue his physical existence after eating the forbidden fruit but from that point on it seems as if he was a very different person. I'm not a theologian but Adam's actions, as recorded in the Bible, give the impression that while physically alive something was very wrong spiritually.

For starters, his relationship with his wife changed. He suddenly felt the need for a barrier between himself and Eve. His desire to put on clothes shows he was no longer as comfortable around her as he was before. Perhaps he felt vulnerable. Perhaps he had grown insecure. Whatever the reason, his putting on clothes represented a change in his relationship with his wife. They no longer accepted each other as they had when God first created them. Now they needed to cover up.

How we love others is a sign of where we are spiritually. The change in how Adam and Eve saw each other is evidence that Adam's spirit had changed. I suspect he still loved Eve but his love was no longer the unconditional love of a living spirit. His fig leaves represent both a change in how he saw Eve and a change in his ability to live spiritually as God originally designed.

"...and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God among the trees of the garden."

Genesis 3:8

If you are hiding from God something is wrong spiritually. In this case not only did they hide in the trees but they also found a blind spot where the all knowing had to ask where they were. In college I was asked to explain why God asks this question. I gave an answer for which my opinion has not changed over the (many) years. We know that sin separates from God yet we say all are in His presence. This is what we see upon God's return to the garden, Adam was physically near but the spiritual connection he once had with the Father was no more. This is also what we see as Christ, under the weight of our sins, asks why His Father has forsaken Him (Matthew 27:46). I believe God knew where Adam was physically but Adam was lost to God spiritually. In fact if not for what God does next, Adam would be eternally lost.

After speaking with Adam and Eve God sacrifices animals. As with the law given to Israel an animal sacrifice was used to atone for sin. The lives of the animals were given in place of the lives owed by Adam and Eve because of their sin. This was acceptable in the eyes of God, foreshadowing what would happen on the cross many centuries later where One who was without sin gave His life in place of the lives we all owe.

Like Adam we all have sinned. By law our being found guilty comes with a sentence of death. With His death on the cross Jesus offered Himself as a substitute giving His life in place of ours. Because of His sinless nature His payment is sufficient to cover all our sins, a sacrifice which is acceptable in the eyes of the Father. Now God can forgive without violating the law of righteousness.

Even in the Old Testament we find God being merciful. By all rights He could have and should have poured out His anger because of Adam's sin. Instead He blotted out their sins with the blood of  animals. If not for this act of mercy and compassion Adam and Eve would have perished, being dead to God in their sins. Today’s believers can live knowing our sins are washed away in the blood of Jesus Christ who died for all of our sins. In this we see God’s mercy.

How Should Christians Respond to the Midterm Election Results?

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The 2018 midterm election is (for the most part) done. Only a few recounts and absentee ballot counts between now and the swearing in of our new government officials. I wish I agreed with everyone who won but I don't. Now that it's all said and done how should followers of Christ respond to the results?

"Therefore I exhort first of all that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks be made for all men, (and I think it's safe to say all women), for kings and all who are in authority,..."

I Timothy 2:12

"Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and the authorities that exist are appointed by God."

Romans 13:1

See Also my 2017 post: "Did We Elect A Moses or A Pharaoh?"

Are You Focused On Christ or On the Waves?

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Matthew 14:22-33

Imagine how incredible it must have been to see two men walk on water. First Jesus, then Peter, doing the impossible. What would you have felt as you watched the two defy gravity and everything you know to be true about the surface of a lake? Would you have been afraid for both? Would you have been jealous of Peter wishing you had the courage to step out of the boat? Would you have taken the time to be amazed or would you have been upset with Jesus for letting you go out in a storm?

Early on in my Christian walk I endured what I still consider one of the biggest storms of my life. I had moved back home after graduating college, planning to find a job and to get established on my own as quickly as possible. Because of my own poor financial decisions I needed time to dig my way up to where I could find a financial path. Little did I know my mom's situation was worse than my own.

I had my suspicions but could not confirm that my mom was unemployed until the power was turned off. For the next year we would survive with no light, no heat and limits to what kind of food we could store. We weren't homeless but the life we were living was not far from it. Fortunately we did have warm water and a working stove, though unrefrigerated hot dogs were perhaps not the best thing to cook. I thank God I didn't die of food poisoning.

Early on during that year of darkness I found it difficult to focus on Christ. When the storm shows no sign of ending and the waves are coming in from all directions it's tough to believe in God or His promises, especially when sinking seems to be the only available option. From time to time I, like Peter, called out, "Save me Lord." But most of the time I griped about the situation calling God out saying, "Why me," or "Lord, how could you?"

It's hard to embrace the waves during a storm. I tend to look at the big waves, the ones which tend to pull me under. But even in the storms we are told to give thanks. We are in God's hands. Even in the storm we are where He wants (I Thessalonians 5:16-18). There we can learn and grow and be refined at the hand of the Master. However to truly grow we must keep our eyes on the One Who calms the storms.

During a year of living unplugged I learned how God can sustain when we seem to have nothing. My year with no electricity became one long quiet time with God, that is once I learned to end my self-centered complaining. No it was not easy. In the middle of that storm I wanted out. I wanted to see the light at the end of the tunnel or any other light that might come available. I thought I needed electricity and television and a power can opener. God took all that away and I found what I really needed.

Salvation in Christ does not mean an end to the storms of life. On the contrary, we may even see more storms because of who we have become. What is different for the believer is the fact that our storms bring with them the Father's goals for that chapter of life. Think of the lessons the disciples learned in the middle of the storm, the testimonies they gained as they witnessed the power of God incarnate. Without the storm and the waves they would have missed out. Because of those same waves they grew in their faith, praising Jesus as the Son of God.

Trust in God during the storms that come into your life. Focus and watch as He works all for your good and His glory.

"And we know all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose."

Romans 8:28

Do you know this for yourself? Are you focused on Christ knowing He is working for your good or are you focused on the waves? Keep your focus on Christ. As for those storms, learn to embrace the waves as opportunities for growth.

Book Review: All The Light We Cannot See

When I see "Pulitzer Prize Winner" on a book cover I open with high expectations and in "All The Light We Cannot See," Anthony Doerr delivers as promised. Set during World War II, Doerr lets us see through the "eyes" of three people drawn to the port city of Saint-Malo in France. Once there the the characters decide the fate of a valuable artifact: a mythical stone said to protect bearer from illness and danger.

The structure of this story reminds me of the classic western, "The Good, The Bad and The Ugly." In both we have three different stories told in the same time frame with the characters coming together in conflict near the end of the story. In "All the Light..." each chapter brings us up to date with one of the main characters as they approach their clandestine meeting in Saint-Malo. Marie-Laure (blind from the age of 6 years old), Werner Pfennig (educated in one of Germany's best military schools but questioning the cause) and Reinhold von Rumpel (an expert in rare artifacts) carry us along on their journeys while each plays their part in the war.

When reading a story I want to care about the characters. If I don't, I am not interested in what happens to them. Doerr gives us characters worth caring about with story lines that work well together. He pulls the subplots together without losing sight of the story's main conflict giving us heroes, villains and support characters who flow following the development curve we were taught in school.

I give "All The Light We Cannot See," two thumbs up recommending the story for anyone who has a passion for reading as well as those looking to develop a love for books. By the final page you will understand why this book can proudly wear its Pulitzer badge.

A warning for sensitive readers: There is a chapter in the story where a group of soldiers assault a group of teenage girls and their guardian. The scene is not graphic but may be difficult for some. The story is peppered with occasional foul language, what might be expected from soldiers in a war. There also seems to be an odd fascination with going to the toilet.

Does A Disability Mean You Are Cursed By God?

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          Stephen Hawking was a brilliant man, so I am not surprised in the interest being shown by the media in his final book. "Brief Answers to the Big Questions" was published after his death, based on personal notes. Hawking began writing the book in order to answer ten questions he says he was asked  regularly. For some reason the media seems fixated on his answer to the question about the existence of God. Considering Hawking was an atheist it's no surprise that he did not believe in God. But in looking at the thinking behind his answer we see a bit of theology that is not based on the Bible. It's unfortunate that Hawking, like many others, thought the Bible teaches that a disability is a sign of a curse from God as reported on CNN.com. Those who believe this, misunderstand the nature of God.
          First an admission: There are people who were stricken with physical ailments because of their sin in the Old Testament. To deny this is to deny truth. And Hawking was right, for most of history people equated disability with being cursed. But there were people in the Bible who lived with ailments and disabilities with no indication of being under a curse. Mephibosheth was disabled most of his life because his nurse tripped while carrying him. Though exiled for a time during the transition from his grandfather to King David, Mephibosheth would return to Israel by invitation of the king. David would show Mephibosheth "the Lord's kindness." As a result he lived out his adult life eating at the king's table. His was not the life of a cursed person. He lived and ate the blessings of royalty, experiencing the kindness of God.
          Jesus' disciples also believed disability to be a sign of a curse. Because of this they asked if a man they met was blind because of his parents' sins or his own. Jesus told them neither, personally setting us all straight on this controversy. The man's blindness was not a punishment nor a curse, otherwise Jesus would have said so. If true for him, it's possible (and highly likely) this is true for anyone. In fact, while again acknowledging physical ailments that were said to be punishments for sin, we do not see a Biblical principle where disability and curse are linked beyond certain situations. To assume a disability to be a curse is to say Jesus lied to His disciples and to add to God’s word something that just is not there.
          This man's blindness was an opportunity. It was his chance to experience the power and love of God. It was also a chance for Jesus to set the record straight while demonstrating His love and compassion, out of which He gave the man sight. True, there are many followers of Christ who are not healed of various ailments or disabilities but this is not the sign of a curse. It's unfortunate that so many have a view of God where He unjustifiably curses people with disabilities. Anyone who believes this has missed the truth.

“You shall not curse the deaf, nor put a stumbling block before the blind, but shall fear your God: I am the LORD.”

Leviticus 19:14

My 5 Minute Midlife Crisis

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How long is a midlife crisis supposed to last? I ask because I think I had one the other day. Fortunately it only lasted about five minutes. I'm not even sure what triggered it but I found myself thinking about my age and how, in all likelihood, I have lived more than half of my earthly life. Having more years behind than in front is in and of itself depressing but my main struggle was with what I saw in my rearview mirror.

I saw a number of missed opportunities, broken promises and projects left undone. Have I really done anything of value? My initial answer was, "No." I guess I am my own worst critic. I started to get a little down on myself but then I decided it was time for a change.

Instead of getting me down, my midlife crisis helped me adjust my point of view. Now more than ever I value the moment. I plan to live in the moment asking what I can do of value right now. As they say, if we are still alive we still have purpose. As a result I'm working towards my goals moment by moment. I challenge you to do the same.

We're both still alive and that means we're still in the game.

Random Thoughts Originally Posted September 4th, 2018

{Originally posted on my other blog}
          Last week our nation found itself in mourning, remembering individuals who each changed our culture through talent and personal will. Aretha Franklin's funeral was Friday, an event that was lived streamed with many other outlets covering from different angles. She earned a position where our nation cared and needed final closure on her life. Not too shabby for any person, let alone a black woman.
          Over the past several days I have enjoyed hearing stories about Ms. Franklin’s life and career. Once, when Luciano Pavarotti became ill, Ms. Franklin filled in singing "Nessun Dorma," a song she would later perform for the Pope. Filling in for Pavarotti on what is said to be a difficult song (outside of her normal repertoire) is impressive in and of itself. Doing so during the 1998 Grammys in front of a world wide audience is a testimony of courage as well as talent. This is a story that speaks volumes of the type of person and talent that was Aretha Franklin.
          As a child I was not a fan of soul music. Back then I did not appreciate the artistry found on the various soul labels. I did however enjoy Aretha Franklin. Hers was a unique talent. One I could and will always appreciate.
         We lost another unique individual last month. Arizona Sen. John McCain passed away after ending treatments for cancer. Described as a, "Maverick," McCain is well known for taking stands for what he thought best for his country, often without regards for what his party wanted. During an interview on Public Radio’s Radio Times writer Dick Polman spoke of how McCain earned the title "Maverick," by doing what's right. If that's the case we need more "Mavericks." Thank you Sen. McCain for setting the example.
          Last week President Trump hosted a closed door meeting with evangelicals during which he encouraged leaders to get their congregations out to vote in the November elections. Original reports described how he spoke of the "violence," that might happen if the GOP does not do well, allowing opponents the opportunity to roll back the gains of the last two years. However attendees of the meeting did not interpret the president's statements as reported. Either way I think Christians must remember Who really protects us. We should get out and vote but not because we are afraid.
          I originally intended to end most weeks with a post called Friday thoughts. However I find it...challenging to do anything on a Friday evening after getting home from the day job. So from time to time I will put together my random thoughts, posting them on random days. These will be observations on our culture: my opportunity to climb on my soapbox. I don't know what these posts will say but the times we live in should provide plenty of material.

The Rise and Fall of King Uzziah

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Part Two: Helping Marvelously

As long as King Uzziah kept his focus on the Lord, God made him prosper (2 Chronicles 26:5). He defeated his enemies, reclaimed lost territory and built a great army. He tore down the walls that were built by the likes of the Philistines and received tribute from the Ammonites. The Bible says he grew "exceedingly strong" (v.8), ruling over an army of more than 307,000 men. His fame grew as God helped him rule. What's interesting is the word the Bible uses to describe that help. The Bible says Uzziah was "marvelously" helped.

2 Chronicles 26:11-15

What does it mean to be marvelously helped? The word marvelously means extraordinary. The NIV uses the word "greatly." God helped Uzziah in a way that was beyond what was expected. As a result, Uzziah's fame spread "far and wide" as people talked about what he was doing in Israel. His achievements became a testimony to what God does in the lives of those who seek Him, a reflection of His glory while Uzziah maintained his focus on the Lord. Uzziah lived a noteworthy life because God helped him "marvelously."

When God helps He does not do so halfheartedly. He's all in and the results are marvelous. God does not settle for giving less than his best. We see this in every miracle and in how believers in the Bible were able to do so many great things. If we really want to see God helping marvelously we need only look at the cross, where He died for us while we were still his enemies.

Do you want to live a life where God marvelously helps? I do. Based on God's response to King Uzziah we get there by simply seeking the Lord.

Two-Thirds of Americans Are Curious About the Bible. Are We Ready to Let Our Lights Shine?

  {Originally posted on my other blog}

          A report published by Barna reveals some interesting tidbits on how Americans see the Bible. When asked by Barna researchers, two-thirds (66%) of America expressed some curiosity about the Bible. This means there is a good chance that the person sitting or standing next to me on the train or at the store is interested in scripture on one level or another. Why haven’t I said anything to them?
          To be honest, what I think I see in our culture seems a lot different from Barna’s statistics. What I have seen and heard is push back from those who want Christ removed from the public square. I've seen those whose political agenda includes a platform of freeing others from religion. These often are very vocal people whose opinions seem to shape culture. Yet, based on Barna's numbers they are not the majority.
With Barna’s numbers in mind I have to stop using, “Lack of Interest,” as an excuse. Instead I need to make myself available to those who want and/or need answers. I doubt they are interested in being force fed an agenda based on what I think they should know. Chances are they have already heard all the Christian jargon and are not interested in the elevator pitch. They are looking for someone who is willing to go beneath the surface. This means if we want to have a conversation about the Bible we must take time to listen to what people are asking. We must meet them where they are and find out why they are looking for answers.
Those of us who know the Gospel need not be afraid. Yes, a third of those around us will likely say they are not interested. I respect their decision and seek the majority who are out there waiting for answers to their questions. They are out there and shouldn't be that hard to find. Are you ready to let your light shine? I am!

For more on how America sees the Bible according to Barna's research see:
State of the Bible 2018: Seven Top Findings

Random Thoughts: A Blemish on the Church

{Originally posted on my other blog as "Friday Thoughts"}

A Pennsylvania grand jury released its report on an investigation of abuse within the Catholic Church. I have not read the report but have heard bits and pieces from friends and from the news. What I have heard is shocking. I pray for the victims whose pain I cannot begin to imagine.

The church is supposed to be a light, leading to the way of hope. Instead we now know of the darkness in which some chose to operate. This is a blemish on the church. And though this was an investigation into the Catholic Church, all believers should take notice and should pray about how the body of Christ should proceed.

The body of Christ needs to examine itself to make sure it is the beacon of hope of which God has given His call. We need to extend a hand of healing to the victims letting them see God's love. We also need to let them know that God feels their pain and that the actions done by those who claimed to be His servants bring sorrow to His heart.

As A Parent, Saying "No!" Is Easy. What Comes Next Is Hard

I had to say, “No,” a few times over the weekend. It's a word I’ve grown accustomed to after close to two decades of being a parent. In my early years I felt bad when I said that word. It felt like I was failing to meet some need or like I was selfishly rejecting my own offspring. Have you ever felt that way when saying, “No,” to your kids? After spending way too much on Christmas present a few years ago and watching the toy grow cobwebs, I realized a line had to be drawn. "No," became a regular part of my parenting arsenal, one I now use with no regret whatsoever. But while saying no is easy, knowing what to do next is the hard part.

Most of the time my children are (thankfully) ok with the word "no." They leave feeling a bit disappointed but they live. Occasionally they beg or try to ask for the same thing in different way but these attempts are easily dispatched. Every now and then I get a response like what one I got this weekend: sulking and visibly showing frustration over not getting their own way. This is something that comes with the territory of raising a teen and a preteen. Knowing how to handle this kind of response is where parents earn their stripes.

My mom would have gotten angry. Based on comments made by relatives and older friends over the years, my mom's response was once considered the norm. A few years ago it would have been the norm in my household as well. But then I looked at my goals as a parent and found they were not being met.

So I changed tactics. No I do not try to become philosophical nor do I speak to my children as if they are my friends. I do however ask them, “What’s going on?” From there we talk about more appropriate ways to handle disappointments and the difference between that and feeling frustrated. What used to lead to a confrontation now becomes a teachable moment.

I put this out there not to brag but to ask how other parents handle what comes after the word "No." If you are a parent do you find it easy to say "no"? How do you handle the moment after the "no" has been delivered?

The Rise and Fall of King Uzziah

Part One: Help From God

Have you ever asked God for help? What was your expectation at the time? Is it true that God helps those who help themselves? The Bible is filled with stories of God helping people in one way shape or form. The Bible says God cares for us. Are you receiving His help?

2 Chronicles 26

Uzziah became king at the age of sixteen. From Jerusalem Uzziah ruled over Judah, sitting on the throne promised to David and his descendants. During the early years of his reign Judah grew strong and the fame of Uzziah spread "far and wide." He lead his armies to great victories over enemies like the Philistines. He reclaimed and rebuilt cities that had been taken from Judah, re establishing the kingdom as a force to be reckoned with. As a teenager, Uzziah clearly exceeded expectations.

What was Uzziah's secret? The Bible tells us Uzziah prospered as long as he sought the Lord (v. 5). This verse is followed by a list of Uzziah's victories and a description of the great army at his command. All of this came as a result of his relationship with the LORD who helped him "marvelously" until he became strong (v. 15). As long as Uzziah's heart was right, God helped him. As long as he sought the Lord with his heart he lived victoriously, enjoying abundant life at the hands of God.

The Bible does not speak of Uzziah helping himself in his early years on the throne. In fact there is no passage instructing us to help ourselves in order to receive God’s help. Instead the Bible speaks of how men and women like Uzziah sought God, people of faith who were humble before the Lord. In response God extended "marvelous" help. He offers the same to anyone today. Are you seeking Him, knowing by faith that He will help?

Is It Time For A Different Approach To The Public Square?

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{Originally posted on my other blog before I moved back here.}

A billboard advertising a 29 year old festival was deemed offensive to some in Southern California, so much so that they felt the need to complain to the advertising agency. Rather than ignore or stand up to protesters the company ended the ad campaign returning the money to the group sponsoring "Harvest." As this is a private company there is nothing that can be done to get the billboards back up but perhaps there is something Christians can do to encourage a different outcome in the future.

This is a good time for Christians to show gratitude while, in effect, turning the other cheek towards offenses in the public square. It's time we see how far a well placed, "Thank you," or some other polite word will go when a company sides with a vocal minority against the faith community. Right now I suspect companies only hear anger, first from those offended by the Gospel message and then by those crying foul when a banner or a sign is taken down. And when slighted, today’s church has a tendency to act as if people are its enemies.

"For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in heavenly places."

Ephesians 6:12

All too often Christians respond as if we are fighting against our neighbor. We respond to offenses, such as the one in SoCal, as if we are called to win a victory over other people instead of over the enemies mentioned in Ephesians 6:12. It's as if the goal of winning the public square has become more important than winning souls.

After learning about the situation I tweeted a suggestion with a different focus. I suggest we respond to these situations by thanking the ad company for the time that the billboard was up. Let them know there are people who do not find the Christian message offensive. Do so without complaining about lost rights and without threats of boycotts. Perhaps if companies hear from us in a non confrontational way we can build relationships where our voices are also heard. Then we will win souls. Perhaps we might even win in the public square.

Another About Face

 

It seemed like a good idea at the time. Back in August I returned to my old blog, planning to leave this one behind. I convinced myself it was right, that the old blog was the best place for me to express myself. Plus it was receiving visitors in larger numbers even though I had not posted there in years.

At first all seemed good. Then I noticed some uncomfortable trends in my pageview stats. Yes I was getting a decent number of page views but most of the readers were not from my target audience. In fact the site making the largest number of referrals was one which I find morally repulsive.

And so I am doing an about face, returning to this blog for my posts. In time I hope to build an audience of people who are here for the writing and for the chance to share opinions, including those who want to discuss opposing views.

Over the next couple of weeks I will mix new posts with posts I wrote since August that wound up on the other blog. Yes going back was a mistake. It's time to admit that mistake and to move forward in the right direction.

Back To Where I Started

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I am heading back to my original blog: Fire & Hammer. There are a number of reasons for my move. First and foremost is my belief that this is what God wants, the place where I can best write for Him. Fire & Hammer was about growth and about a journey. It was about getting to know God and at times speaking out as He directs. It's title and description are reminders of the long path on which I walk, enjoying each day as God leads me in pursuit of my calling. I need these reminders. Besides Fire & Hammer is a much cooler name.

I am blessed by the fact that people still read Fire & Hammer. I look forward to adding readers and to building relationships with my visitors, old and new. To be honest I don't remember why I left those readers behind. I probably wrote about it in one of the early posts on the more recent blog. Eventually I will go back and check. For now I am moving forward by going back. I expect to have a lot of fun along the way.

So as of today it's back to the old blog. Fire & Hammer is active once again. It should be fun bringing it back to life. I look forward to the challenge of growing as a writer and as a person, and I invite you to come along with me. I'm not sure what we will find along the way but without some mystery, life would be mundane.

Book Review: 7 Women and the Secret of Their Greatness

In my review of "7 Men" I spoke of how the book was "...an introduction to people we may think we already know." I have a confession. While I knew a little about the men, I knew next to nothing about the women whose lives are detailed in "7 Women and the Secret of Their Greatness." As a result just about every fact and every facet of their lives was new to me as Eric Metaxas once again delivers on his promise of challenging our definition of what makes a person great.

Like their counterparts in the previous book these are people who followed their convictions. In so doing they withstood trials that might have crushed many men. They saved lives, restored kingdoms and helped restore dignity to those who were helpless. Their life stories inspire and just might make you question what you are doing with your time here on earth.

With its bite sized biographies "7 Women" is good for many different audiences, including those who normally avoid nonfiction. Metaxas gives us a wealth of details with a delivery that is entertaining though at times a bit uneven. (One or two of the biographies seem to shift to another style in a way that feels sort of like a speed bump.) Still this is a good read and a great introduction to some of history's most impressive but perhaps overlooked people. I highly recommend "7 Women," a book that will change your perspective of women while challenging us all to give our best during our time here on earth.

Friday Thoughts: Time to Celebrate and A Reminder to Pray for Our Government

Pennsylvania Capital Complex

For eighteen days the world watched the search for and rescue of a youth soccer team in Thailand. Twelve boys and their coach were trapped in a flooded cave. Fortunately they were found alive. In a race against time divers attempted a daring rescue hoping to beat the monsoon rains that threatened to make the situation worse. Thank God the rescue was successful. All of the boys were rescued just before one of the pumps used to pull water out of the cave failed.

This is a time to celebrate with the families who got their sons back. It is a time to praise God for guiding the search and rescue. It is also a time of mourning as we remember the diver who lost his life during the dive. We stand with his family in prayer and with the doctor whose father passed away while he was in the cave giving medical attention to the children.

Following the rescue both the President and the Vice President released statements. One recognized God. The other (as far as I know) did not. We have been told that both have professed faith in Christ. The difference in  their statements is a reminder that we need to pray for the White House and for all of our government leaders. If they profess Christ, pray they acknowledge Him in all things.

God Through the Eyes of Solomon

When speaking of God in the Old Testament we tend to speak only of His judgement, seeing Him as if He were a heavenly enforcer looking for those whom He could condemn. Meanwhile the New Testament is all about love and mercy, a focus how God forgives our sins. But if God was so heavy handed in the OT, why did people like David want to serve Him? In our search to find God we must not overlook the descriptions of those in the OT who knew Him. We need to look at people like Solomon whose prayer at the temple dedication sounded a lot like he was calling on a God of mercy not the OT judge we have become accustomed to seeing.

2 Chronicles 6:12-31

King Solomon fulfilled his father's dream of building a temple for the God of Israel. Upon completion of this rather elaborate construction project God revealed His pleasure by resting His glory upon the building in the form of a cloud. It was then in the presence of the Lord and of the people that Solomon said a prayer of dedication over God's new home.

In his prayer Solomon acknowledges the Supreme Judge, speaking of a future where both individuals and the nation as a whole would suffer as a result of sin. He speaks of the disasters to come to those who turn their backs on the Lord. Solomon knew God as a judge and does not question His judgements. He seems to accept these as a natural consequence of man's fallen state.

"For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God."

Romans 3:23

Like Solomon, the writers of the New Testament saw God as a judge. The verdict received via the inspiration of God (2 Timothy 3:16) is that all men and women are guilty. The punishment, as decreed from the judgement seat, is far worse than suffering famine or even invasion:

"For the wages of sin is death..."

Romans 6:23

Like it or not the judge seen by Solomon in his day has also judged us today. And just as Solomon, in all his wisdom, accepted God's judgement as right so should we. But we should also recognize that even in the OT Solomon saw much more in God than a judge.

Knowing the people would sin Solomon appeals to God, asking that He would forgive them and restore them when they turn to the Lord in prayer. This was an appeal for God's mercy and grace. Solomon saw God as merciful and had no trouble asking God to forgive sins which had yet to be committed. The wisest man on earth spoke of God in the Old Testament as if he were speaking to the merciful Lord found in the New Testament.

As king of Israel Solomon shared a special relationship with God. He saw God at work in the life of his father and during his own rule as he served during the construction of the temple. What Solomon saw was a judge. At the same time he saw God as merciful. He saw grace. He saw restoration at the hand of the Lord. These would compel him to pray as he did at opening day of God's temple. Solomon's prayer reveals how God looked through his eyes. Do you see the same?

Mr. Incredible, Real Life Fatherhood and an Explosion of Straws

"Why would they change math? Math is math!" Mr. Incredible

I took my family to see “Incredibles 2” this past Father's Day. We all enjoyed the first movie and had hoped to see a sequel. When Disney announced movie 2 we knew we had to see it as soon as possible. I also had an ulterior motive in going to see the film. After reading one or two critiques which said the film portrays dads (represented by Mr. Incredible) in a negative light, I wanted to see for myself if this was yet another bad dad film. Considering the movie takes place in 1962 when family roles were a lot different than today, I was pleasantly surprised by a realistic portrayal (at least in my experience) of what it's like to be dad.

For the record "Incredibles 2" is an entertaining, though somewhat predictable movie. The action sequences are a lot of fun and while this is a superhero movie, it does a great job of poking fun at everyday life. Incredibles 2 picks up where its predecessor left off, in the parking lot right after Dash's track meet. Though the supers once again save the day, the world would still rather they stay in hiding. Against this backdrop Elastigirl is offered a job where she can fight crime while changing perceptions about supers.

Mom's new job means a number of changes in the family, including Mr. Incredible taking on a new role as a stay at home dad. I doubt this was very common in 1962. Back then most dads worked and would have scoffed at staying home with the children. There would have been bruised egos and a lack of know how if they were forced to take on the task. When judged by 2018 standards of course Mr. Incredible looks bad. I also suspect fifty-six years from now we will look like we didn’t have a clue to those looking back upon history.

With a precocious super powered baby, a moody teen whose having boy troubles and a son learning elementary school New Math, dad is in over his head. And yes he does make some silly mistakes, in at least one case making matters worse. He loses sleep. Eventually he loses his temper. He has to turn to Edna Mode and Frozone for help. For most of the movie it looks as if he is failing at his job. And as he struggles to figure it all out his day begins to look very familiar.

As any parent will tell you, when you are running late something will come up missing. Once when we were running late for my older son’s football picture day, he couldn't find his cleats. As we searched for the cleats my younger son discovered a box of 1000 drinking straws. Unfortunately toddlers (which he was at the time) are not good at opening boxes. Somehow he ripped the box in half sending the straws all over the family room. The sight of my son surrounded by a sea of straws would have made for a good picture had I had time to get my camera. It also made for a good laugh, which I would have enjoyed if not for the sound of my dog throwing up in the dining room.

I now had missing cleats, straws on the floor and vomit to clean up. There was only time to take care of two problems. I left the straws knowing I could explain things to my wife when she showed up for the football game. There was only one flaw in my plan and boy was it a big one. Instead of going straight to the field, like she said she was going to do, my wife decided to go home where she discovered that we no longer had any clean straws. In hindsight I should have cleaned up the straws and left the vomit. I could have then denied having any knowledge of the dog throwing up, which would have kept me out of the dog house.

Like Mr. Incredible I have made many mistakes while taking care of my children. Yes at times the house turns into a chaotic mess but eventually everything gets cleaned up. We found the cleats and on other occasions the remote, or whatever other item becomes lost at inopportune times. The children forgive me when I mishandle situations with their friends. Eventually even my wife learns to laugh at things, that is after she cleans up after me (just kidding). The same was true for the Parr family in “Incredibles 2,” where the kids survive Mr. Incredible's mistakes. Eventually one even compliments the job he does being dad.

“Incredibles 2” is not a disparaging portrayal of a father. It is an animated telling of what it's like for real dads, both in the 1960’s and today. We do our best, which often is less than perfect. Eventually we figure some of it out and everyone survives. But I still don't know why they would change math!

Is Your Faith Mature Enough to Move You Beyond Your Ability?

2 Kings 6:1-7

With a splash his contribution to the school's construction project came to a quick end. He was fortunate to have been admitted as part of "The Sons of the Prophets," a group of men who were cultivating their spiritual gifts under the teaching of the Prophet Elisha. Having outgrown their quarters the students headed off into the woods near the Jordan River in order to cut down trees for use in constructing a new home. These men figured if each cut down one tree they would have enough wood to build a space where they could comfortably continue their studies.

Having found a good sized tree, one of the men took aim with his borrowed ax. With both hands on the handle he swung. Instead of the sound of splintering wood his efforts were rewarded by a loud 'Splash!' To his dismay the ax head had come off of the handle, launching itself into the rushing waters of the Jordan River. I wonder if he stood for a moment, staring at the handle in disbelief. Perhaps he took a moment to give thanks that no one was hurt. At some point reality set in and he realized he had a problem. He now had to find a way to replace the ax he had borrowed...and broken.

Being a man of God he knew he was required to make amends to his neighbor for the lost ax head. He likely considered himself bound, if not simply by honor, then by the principle behind Exodus 22:14:

"And if a man borrows anything from his neighbor, and it becomes injured or dies, the owner not being with it, he shall surely make good."

Though the command specifically applied to borrowing work animals, the idea of compensating the owner also applied when a tool was lost or broken. For Jews this was (and likely is) an issue of character. As written in Psalm 37:21:

"The wicked borrows but does not pay back..."

Being under conviction the young prophet knew he needed to replace the ax. Based on his reaction he did not seem to have the means to buy a replacement and unlike today's students he could not text his family to ask if they could load up his PayPal account. He was unable to replace the ax and without it he was unable to keep his pledge to his fellow students. Fortunately the prophet Elisha was more than willing to help.

The prophet could have responded in a number of ways. He could have promised to pray about the situation, sending his pupil away to wait for a word from God. Likely no one would have argued had this been his response nor would anyone have blinked had the prophet taken up an offering in order to replace the broken ax. Either response would have been acceptable, a normal human response from a believer. Instead the prophet chose to do what was not humanly impossible. Instead of being limited by his own ability, Elisha allowed God to do the impossible in order to help the young student meet his responsibilities.

Our natural tendency when we see others in need is to do what we can. Often, at least here in the states, what we can do involves money. Of course there is nothing wrong with giving money or time or anything else we can give in order to help our neighbor. In fact Jesus calls us to go the extra mile. But are we, by faith, going as far as God wants? Are we limiting ourselves to doing just what we can or our we open to doing the extraordinary by the power of God?

As the body of Christ, God's church are His hands and feet here on earth. Around us are people dealing with a multitude of problems and needs. Here in the United States we have food deserts where people do not know where their next meal might come from. Some of these deserts exist on our college campuses along with the need for protection from bullying. We are seeing an uncomfortable number of school shootings, leaving children with a feeling of insecurity and stress. Who knows how this will affect their future.

Elisha tossed a piece of wood into the water, causing an iron ax head to float. In so doing not only did he help his student return the tool, he provided a lasting impression of the power of God. By allowing God to work through us, we will have opportunities to demonstrate extraordinary love: love that comes from and with the power of the Holy Spirit. Is your faith mature enough to solve problems in extraordinary ways? Are you responding to your neighbors in your own ability or in the ability and calling of our Father in Heaven?

Also read: Yes, We Should Pray Following Tragedies

And What We Should Do After Prayer

Scaffolding: Who Knew?

Over the last several days I have watched as a construction crew built scaffolding in front of the building across the street from my job. Before now I thought of scaffolding as something simple to make, like a giant Erector Set suddenly appearing usually blocking the sidewalk right where I want to walk. Now I see so much more. A mixture of metal and wood, a good sized scaffolding takes many work hours to build. This one is almost a block long and about four stories tall, taking its builders more than a week to complete. I suspect it a foolish and dangerous move to rush such a project as those who put it together have the lives of the coming construction crew in their hands. So for the sake of safety, taking the time to build scaffolding right is a very important investment.

Having lived and/or worked in major cities most of my life I had come to take scaffolding for granted. I walk right by rarely taking notice of the project at hand, ignoring the effort it takes to maintain and even improve my urban surroundings. Having recently committed to making major changes to my own humble abode, I have become aware of what others are doing in order to improve upon an old building or even to create something new. Granted my projects only involve the use of an "A" shaped ladder, not a block long section of scaffolding but there is still an investment of time: one I hope pays off with something spectacular.

Home improvement is not the only project taking up a lot of my time. Being a husband and a father takes up time that is measured in years, along with a high level of sacrifice. Writing takes quite a time commitment. On my old blog I tried to take shortcuts which in the long run took me places I did not want to go. I'm guessing you also have a list of things that require a commitment of time in order to achieve your best. (Thank you for investing some of your time in reading this post.)

Like scaffolding those around you may take what you build for granted. You may find it difficult to get anyone to notice but not being noticed is better than being known because a shortcut lead to a huge incident. Put in as much time as you need in order to build your own masterpiece. You never know how many people your work might touch. True you may feel like your work simply blends into the background, like the forgotten but greatly significant scaffolding. Keep building. In the end what you do may impact culture in ways we cannot predict today.

The Challenge of Writing About Anything

My favorite radio station is WHYY in Philadelphia, our local public radio station. I am very curious,
and the full roster of local and national programming on WHYY is a natural way of feeding my curiosity. A few weeks back, my curiosity lead to a swift kick in the pants which came while listening to an interview on Fresh Air. I do not remember the name of the person being interviewed. What I do remember is being challenged by his claim that a writer can make a story out of almost anything.

I do enjoy writing, easily getting lost in a river of  words while sitting at the keyboard. As often as possible I sneak off with pen and paper (yes I sometimes write the old fashioned way) just to see what thoughts and dreams come out on the page. True, I often find myself doodling, but the challenge of telling a story is one I am always ready to tackle.

So why don’t I write as often as I’d like? My list of excuses is long. And yes I have to admit they are excuses, not real obstacles. One such excuse is not having anything interesting to write about. This is a throwback to my time as a codependent. Having lost myself in the destructive cycle that comes with living with an alcoholic, I never thought myself good enough to come up with my own stories. Being told I would never make any real money as a writer did not help either, as I took it to mean I was not good enough. Because of codependency, I tend to hide, allowing my dreams to wither on the vine. Writing is all about being on display, something way out of my comfort zone.

I once caught myself telling a story someone else told me about something from their past. Don’t worry, I did not take credit for the story nor did I impose myself upon the plot. I did tell the story with passion which must have seemed odd to the listener, especially considering I was talking about someone they did not know. I figured the story was more interesting than anything I could come up with on my own. And while I enjoyed telling the story, I felt very empty especially when the listener made an off hand comment about a plot detail. It’s hard to come up with answers when your trying to explain something from someone else’s story.

A writer can make his own story out of anything. This is my new challenge. I do enjoy telling a good story. Now I feel challenged to come up with my own material. With anything and everything in front of me in the world, there should be plenty of topics to write about. Having nothing to write about is no longer an excuse, having been scratched off my list. It was a silly excuse, as most of them all of them are. Right now, as I look at a spring rain outside my window, I find myself wondering if I see my next bunch of new stories. In fact I do.

So, GQ Magazine Says No to the Bible?

GQ Magazine recently printed their list of "21 Books You Don't Have to Read." These are considered

the "Great Books" read by those who are "well read." The magazine's editors offer up alternatives while explaining why the books made the list. I remember a few of these as being ones I was forced to read in high school, like "The Old Man and the Sea." Others I chose to read later, like "The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn." GQ's alternatives are intriguing and I might check a few of them out. One of the don't have to reads is causing quite a stir among Christians. Some are offended, wondering how the editors of GQ see reading the Bible as a waste of time.

The recommendation to not read the Bible is being challenged as believers rush to defend the scriptures against this apparent attack. Having read the GQ list I think both sides have missed the point. While dismissing the Bible based on their own literary standard the editors at GQ miss the impact this book has on the lives of Christ's followers and even on some who don’t believe. It is via these ancient texts that God offers enlightenment to those who come honestly seeking him. At the same time those who rush to defend the Bible seem to forget that we fight not against flesh and blood, as we are taught in the Bible. As such our goal first and foremost is to reflect the light of salvation into a darkened world. Arguing the literary merits of the Bible will not accomplish this goal.

Those who denounce the Bible as boring and contradictory are not going to change their minds just because we tell them they are wrong. Instead of fighting back we need to use the tools given us by our Father for changing hearts. Only as the work of the Bible becomes evident in our lives will those around us truly see the unique value of scripture. Instead of responding to the opinions of a handful of non-believers, let us live as examples demonstrating why the Bible is still the most important book everyone should read.

My First Wall Scraper

Are you handy with a hammer or are you all thumbs?

Though I have owned a home for over 18 years I have not taken on very many home improvement projects. This, combined with the fact that my mom did not do well in the area of house upkeep, leaves me in a situation where I have gone back to school. What am I currently learning? I am taking a real life course in how to update a very...very dated home, turning it into something that is both modern and comfortable. My classroom at the moment is our dining room which we hope to split into a dining and sitting area. My first course: learning how to take down wallpaper.

When we first bought the house I freshened up the bedrooms by painting over the old wallpaper. Actually I should say I have painted over where the previous owner painted over the wallpaper. I wanted to do the same in the dining room but water damage from a leaky roof is forcing me to replace the drywall. This is going to leave us with new drywall sitting side by side with old (painted) wallpaper. Not wanting to see the difference in texture between the two I decided it's time to buy a wallpaper scraper.

With two big box hardware stores nearby, I headed into one for my new scraper. I always enjoy buying a new tool and walking around a hardware store is one of life’s great adventures. The only drawback is having to fight the urge to buy something I had not planned on getting. So after gathering a few new ideas I started my search for a wallpaper scraper, which was not where I thought the store would put it. After walking around for several minutes, I finally gave in and let my wife ask for help.

As is often the case, we easily found a sales associate ready and willing to offer advice. So we asked where we could find a wallpaper scraping tool. The associate told us they no longer sell wallpaper. I am not sure why he told me this. I didn't want to put wallpaper up. I wanted to take it down. By the look on his face I could tell he was a bit puzzled as to why anyone would buy a wallpaper scraper. After admitting that he did not know if they carried scrapers, he pointed us to the department a scraper might be in if they did carry them. As it turns out, they did.

While my shopping trip was successful I was left wondering: Why do people so often answer the question that was not asked? While you ponder this, I have a wall to scrape. I will post updates on my progress along with descriptions of my successes and failures as I learn home improvement on the fly. And the next time I need a tool, I suspect I’ll visit one of the local independent hardware stores where I hope to avoid any funny looks or strange answers.

Book Review: 7 Men and the Secret of Their Greatness

I knew I would like this book by the second paragraph of its introduction, which I found hard to put down. In describing the goal of his book, Eric Metaxas promises something different: a book of biographies written to challenge our current definitions of “What is a man?” and “What makes a man great?” Metaxas tells us the stories of seven great men (eight if you count his mention of the Duke in the introduction). In the process he delivers on his promise, asking the reader to see masculinity through a different pair of glasses.

As promised in its title, this book is an introduction to greatness. It is a reminder that by developing and following the right convictions people (men in this book, women in the companion book which I am reading next) have achieved great things. Each of these men are known for the impact they had on the human story. What is often overlooked is how the faith which was at the core of their beings lead them in a lifetime of making the world a better place. They did not set out to be great. They set out to follow their callings. By reading their stories we are encouraged to follow their examples.

With enough facts to feed those who love reading biographies and yet light enough to entertain those who normally run from non-fiction, “7 Men” is a book that I recommend for all types of readers. While the target audience appears to be people of faith, as well as those seeking to find lives that were changed by their faith, this is at its core an introduction to people we may think we already know. I give two thumbs up with an exclamation mark to “7 Men,” a book that both informs and enriches the lives of its readers.

Eric Metaxas’ web page: http://ericmetaxas.com/

7 Men: http://ericmetaxas.com/books/7-men/

Spontaneous or Planned Bedtime Prayer?

“Now I lay me down to sleep…”

If you grew up in a Christian home there’s a good chance your childhood bedtime routine included prayer with your parents. Perhaps you routinely prayed something like the words written above or maybe your prayer involved giving thanks for all the good things that happened that day. Some of us prayed at the side of our beds with our parents. Others prayed while in bed, mom or dad sitting on the edge of the bed. It was all part of a very comforting routine, an expectation in any “good” Christian household.

As a parent of teenaged boys I no longer can get away with the old wrote repetition prayers. How do I keep the routine going without it ringing hollow, nothing more than a habit passed along by tradition? Perhaps I should plan what we will say each night, avoiding the memorized prayers in order to bring something of substance before the throne of grace. If not a planned prayer, perhaps bedtime should involve something more spontaneous and less routine. After all, payer is a conversation with God. I do not want my kids asking me the same question over and over again night after night. Why would God want to hear the same non-petition night after night after night?

Of course the old standby routine prayers are good for helping younger children establish the habit of going to God in prayer. Yet, as they get older it seems like there is a need for something else. A little planning and a lot of listening can become an avenue for helping them learn to open their hearts to God. With the opportunity to speak openly with him about the things in life that concern them, perhaps prayer might become more real and meaningful. As a parent, spontaneous prayer might even afford the opportunity to get to know my children a little better by hearing what they lift up to God in prayer.

Moving forward our bedtime prayers are going to be a lot less routine. Some nights I will think ahead of time about concerns the children have expressed or about things that are on my heart concerning them. At other times we will just wing it, saying whatever is on our hearts. Whether planned ahead of time or spontaneous, our prayers will not follow the same wrote pattern of the past. I look forward to seeing how God responds as my children learn to earnestly seek him.

What do you think and what is involved in your family’s bedtime routine?

Yes, We Should Pray Following Tragedies, And What We Should Do After Prayer

 We have repeated this cycle way too often. This year alone we have had eighteen (based on how certain groups count) or eight (as counted by those who are quick to correct the other groups) school related shootings. And after each, as well as after the other gun related tragedies, we fall into a cycle. That cycle starts with a number of individuals, both famous and unknown, asking for prayer for the comfort of those involved in the tragedies. This is followed by those who declare that the time for prayer is long past and it is time for action. In fact, for people of faith, it is time for both. So in the shadow of our most recent tragedy it is time to pray and to ask what we should do after the “Amen.”

Yes We Should Pray

“Let’s remember to pray,” has publically reached the point where it is no different than saying, “I understand,” when in reality the person saying it does not understand. Saying anything about prayer has become and empty platitude, no more meaningful than asking someone how they are doing when you do not expect (or want) the truth. The impression the world has of our offer of prayer seems to be that we want to look like we are doing something while not really doing anything. Prayer is seen as running away from the problem instead of dealing with reality.

Ironically prayer is the single most powerful thing a believer can do in light of what we see happening in our nation...in our world. The Bible is full of promises of what will happen if God’s people turn to Him. Our God is wise and mighty, having an answer to all our problems if we seek Him wholeheartedly. In the process we are brought into alignment with His will, praying beyond the simple (but important) “Bring comfort to…,” and moving to praying for the very solutions we so need.

What We Should Do After Prayer?

The people who make up the Body of Christ are God’s hands and feet on earth. As a result, part of the answer to our prayers about school shootings involves getting off the pews and responding as God calls. This is the history of the church where believers, moved by convictions of faith, have always been active in helping their neighbors during times of great need. During the plagues, Christians stood in the face of epidemic helping those who had become too weak to help themselves. In the process they risked their own lives while ministering to people suffering with a contagious and deadly illness. Christians like William Wilberforce stood with the abolitionists in fighting the injustice of slavery, risking reputation and status. In both cases believers felt it important to move as God’s hands, even at the risk of life and limb.

Our nation needs Christians to stand for our children today. True some may be called only to prayer. Some will be called to become active in schools, another adult to stand with the staff. Others will be called to contact local politicians, speaking up so that the voice of the church is not limited to those who try to elbow everyone else out of the public square. God will call some to do a combination of things or to do something not listed here. The fact is that prayer helps bring us in line with God where we will hear His call to do on His behalf.

So yes it is time for prayer. Just make sure you earnestly seek God with a heart that is open to acting as He calls. With a loving and obedient heart you will become the answer by which God moves prayer from a knee jerk reaction to a movement for change that will have a long lasting impact on our communities. Pray earnestly for results. Then follow your convictions with action as God leads.

Second Time Around, Enjoying the Eagles' Win

I was called a front-runner as I searched for someone with whom I could celebrate the Super Bowl win. I grew up watching the Bears, having suffered a number of ups and downs. I still remember the season where the head coach kept changing quarterbacks like a baseball manager making changes on the mound. Then there was the season where so many Bears' QB's got injured that legendary running back Walter Payton had to run the offense out of the shotgun. After years of frustration the Bears won the Super Bowl. Unfortunately at the start of that season I moved to Atlanta to go to school.

There were very few Bears' fans in Atlanta in 1986 so I was alone in celebrating that win. I missed the parades and the interviews with crying and excited fans. I missed the build up during the '85 season, the excitement and the doubts as a defense that struggled early in the season became one of the best ever. I missed all the fun and excitement in Chicago as the Lombardi trophy took its place in Halas Hall. It hurt to miss out. I felt like I was not a part of things: a fan with no real connection. Having a (jealous) classmate call me a front-runner only added to the pain.

I still have an allegiance to the Bears but having lived in Philadelphia for 30 years I have grown quite fond of midnight green (kelly green as well). No, 30 years is not as long a time as some of the Eagles' fans in the area have suffered, but after not celebrating a win for 32 years I am ready for the festivities. I look forward to being in town for my second time around celebrating a Super Bowl win. This time I get to celebrate with millions of fans. I won't be alone and I don't expect to be called a front-runner. This time around I am going to drink it all in, truly enjoying the celebration.

E-A-G-L-E-S Eagles!

Super Bowl LII

I will get to my Super Bowl pick in a minute but first I have to get a few things off my chest.

I have heard it all season long. After every game I heard it said, “The Eagles have not played anyone.” It was as if Eagles’ fans are not supposed to enjoy the 2017 season because of the schedule crafted by the NFL. How is it that the Eagles’ wins did not count. Now, after defeating the defending NFC champions and team with the best defense in the league, the Eagles are one of only two teams remaining. What do they have to do for the naysayers to admit this is a good team? Is being in Super Bowl LII enough or do they have to win? Is a win enough or does it have to be a blowout?

Then there are the comments about Eagles’ fans. Yes, fans were quite naughty in throwing snowballs at Santa...back in 1968! Yes, there is a group of fans whose conduct can only be described as embarrassing. But that 1% does not speak for the other 99% who are excited about the game but disciplined. That 1% is a minor story at best, especially in light of accusations that the Patriots have in the past used some rather...unique…tactics to win championships. The focus on the fans is nothing more than a distraction. The game will be won or lost on the field.

On the field I expect to see a great game. The Eagles’ defense ranks among the best. Their offense scored rather handily against this year’s best defense. On the other sideline are the Patriots who we all know will be ready. The Pats know how to win and even with a sore hand, Brady is the best. But football is normally won at the line of scrimmage where I think the Eagles are better on both sides of the ball. That being said, will the Eagles play a full four quarters?

This season has been full of very slow starts by the Eagles, with many situations where the Eagles tried (and sometimes succeeded) in beating themselves. The Patriots will not make many mistakes nor will they take any part of this game off. If the Eagles play four quarters and cut down on their own mistakes, this is a winnable game. I think they pull it off.

Eagles 24 Patriots 21

Praying for Obstacles in the Life of Your Children

Once when asked what I thought was the most important goal in bringing up children I said, somewhat tongue in cheek, preparing children to get out. I suspect the mom who asked wanted something else. Her response made it sound as if she was somewhat appalled at my answer. I suppose had I said smother them with love, or direct them with strict/less strict discipline she would not have had a problem. Perhaps she was looking for something profound about ways to teach kids to live by faith. All this and more is a part of preparing a child to live on their own, as is one of the most difficult parts of raising children: letting them face difficult challenges as they grow into adults who are ready to handle life on their own.

My sons, both of  whom are very athletic, have faced their share of challenges on and off the field, including a season ending injury suffered by one a few years ago. What we thought would be a short time on the sidelines turned into several months of no activity. This was followed by months of trying to get back into shape. Like any good Christian parent, I prayed for quick healing but the recovery time was anything but quick. I was left struggling with why God would allow an injury of this kind and why we would have to go through such a trial. (Trust me, a child’s injury is a trial for the entire family.) As days turned into weeks and weeks into months, I wondered why God was taking so long to answer.

For the record, I do not believe God causes injuries. I do believe He uses them, and other trials, as tools for growth. And so, though it was a difficult time for us all, I am thankful for what my son learned (not for the injury itself but for the lessons). The list of life lessons learned during his recovery is long, beginning with a lesson in perseverance when the odds turn negative. My son will be a better person because of these lessons. I have already seen them come into play in his young life. Where I wanted a quick recovery, God used the situation in a way I never would have thought of on my own.

I still believe the most important goal in parenting is to prepare children for their future when they will no longer live at home. There is a lot involved in this process, including (for believers in Christ) teaching them about the faith. Those lessons, as well as lessons in how to handle adversity, are not strengthened by sheltering kids or by solving problems for them. God understands this, which I suspect is why when we pray for our children to have a smooth day, God sometimes responds by saying no. Trials and obstacles help build faith. So now, instead of asking God to give my children a great day, I ask God to give them the day they need to become the people He wants them to become, even the obstacles. I ask God to prepare my children to get out.

2018 NFL Divisional Round

After going .500 last weekend my playoff record stands at 16-10. Hopefully I’ll improve as we move into the divisional round. Last week gave us some very close and (with one exception) very entertaining games. This weekend should give us two good games and two which I am not too sure about. All four games feature road teams traveling north, although the Pittsburgh game is the only one where weather might be an issue (unless the Minnesota opens the windows on their dome).

Atlanta at Philadelphia
Saturday 4:35 pm on NBC

My heart is all in behind the Eagles. My head is not quite as confident. Losing Carson Wentz during the season has left Eagles’ fans wondering if we are looking at one and done. To be honest the Falcons are one of the teams I worried about facing even before the Eagles lost their starting QB. That being said I think the Eagles can and will win on Saturday. Having the bye should help the Eagles’ d-line which will be key as it was all season. The Falcons are a good team but they seem to have played below expectations most of the season. Last week the Rams got in their own way, helping the Falcons to the win. Which Falcons team is the real 2017-18 team? We know a backup quarterback is often a step down from the starter but how good are the rest of the Eagles? I think this comes down to the Eagles’ defense making a stop when needed as they have a few times this season.
Eagles 21 Falcons 17

Tennessee at New England
Saturday 8:15 pm on CBS

The Titans feature one of the young potentially great quarterbacks in the league. Last week Mariota proved he can overcome a slow start and do some amazing things with the football, even throw touchdowns to himself. Of course the veteran quarterback on the other sideline is no slouch and is able to control a game, making opponents look like they should have stayed home. But these two will not be the only ones on the field. I think overall the Titans bring the better defense. On offense these teams are equal except for Gronkowski. Normally defense wins playoff games but in this case I think the Patriots’ passing game (including Cooks) will be too much for the Titans to overcome.
Patriots 45 Titans 28

Jacksonville at Pittsburgh
Sunday 1:05 pm on CBS

Last week the Jaguars played two different quarterbacks: bad Bortles in the first half and good Bortles in the second. Good Bortles did more with his legs than with his arm, leading to the only touchdown in the game. The defense won the game against the Bills, holding them to a field goal and keeping the Jaguars in the game while the offense struggled in the first half. That defense should play well again this weekend but they will not hold the Steelers to a field goal. The Jaguars will need offense and I do not see them generating much more than they did last week. This time around their offensive struggles will hang their defense out to dry. Watch for the Steelers to wear down the defense, scoring points in the second half for the win.
Steelers 35 Jaguars 10

New Orleans at Minnesota
Sunday 4:40 pm on Fox

It’s tough to score on the Viking defense which only allowed an average of 15 points per game, holding the Saints to 19 points back in week one. But when I look at their week to week performances and which teams were able to score against the Vikings, I suspect the Saints will put up points this week. Both of these teams are very different than they were back in week one, with the Saints bringing a complete team up north to Minnesota. This has the makings of a playoff classic but in the end I think the Saints’ balanced attack will win out over the Vikings’ stingy defense.
Saints 27 Vikings 24

I am looking forward to another great weekend of football which should leave us with a couple of exciting matchups for the conference championships. What are your thoughts?

Book Review: The Wisdom of Your Heart

Are you ready to confront your anger? Marc Alan Shelske thinks you should. In fact he thinks we need to examine all of our feelings, assessing our own emotional health. As we do so Pastor Shelske suggests that our feelings are not the slippery slope often portrayed in church. Instead our emotions tell us something about ourselves and our environment, that is if we are willing to learn how to listen.

Part personal reflection, part Bible study "The Wisdom of Your Heart" is aimed at Christians, challenging commonly held beliefs about emotions. Pastor Shelske asks us to re-examine what the Bible tells us about emotions and the believer's relationship with our feelings. While doing so Shelske shares how his own emotional growth freed him from the bondage of past experience. By sharing his journey Shelske encourages his readers to actively seek emotional growth, offering thought provoking questions to guide us along our way.

On the surface this might appear to be just another self help book but it is not. This is Shelske's personal testimony through which he offers a glimpse of something different. While followers of Christ will likely get the most out of this book, anyone who is open to personal examination and growth will find Shelske's writing thought provoking and different. Men will likely find this a challenge to how they were taught, especially if they were brought up in the church. Because of its value as a tool for personal growth, I recommend "The Wisdom of Your Heart": A quick read with a powerful message.

Update 3/27/2019 - The Wisdom of Your Heart is now an audiobook. For more information visit http://www.marcalanschelske.com/the-wisdom-of-your-heart/

2018 NFL Wildcard Weekend

It’s time for the NFL playoffs and after a two year break I am bringing back my playoff game picks. After the 2015 Super Bowl I had a record of 14-8 in picking playoff games. This year I hope to improve that record although this might be the most challenging year for picking the games. The NFC east looks wide open as just about any team could make a run. I think the AFC comes down to two teams, although there is a third which could surprise people. So let’s look at this weekend’s games and make sure to let me know if you agree or disagree with my picks.

Tennessee at Kansas City
Saturday 4:35pm on ESPN

This should be a fun, high scoring game as both offenses will move the ball. I think the Chiefs’ running game might be the difference. They come in averaging 118 rushing yards per game. On the other side the Titans’ defense allows an average that is below 90 yards per game. Will Kareem Hunt be able to get going against the Titans? I think he will and this will open things up for the Chiefs’ passing game.
Chiefs 35 Titans 31

Atlanta at Los Angeles Rams
Saturday 8:15pm on NBC

In the Saturday nightcap we get to see Jared Goff and Todd Gurley make their first playoff appearances. How will they handle the spotlight, especially against an experienced Falcons team? This should be another fun game, coming down to the final drive. Watch for the Rams to control the ball late in the game helping set up either a game winning drive or leaving the Falcons racing the clock to keep their playoff run alive. With home the home field advantage I see the Rams coming out on top.
Rams 31 Falcons 28

Buffalo at Jacksonville
Sunday 1:05pm on CBS

I really think the Jaguars may surprise people in this playoff run, depending on how Blake Bortles handles the spotlight. At times Bortles is very good. But in the past there have also been those “What was he thinking?” moments. If Bortles plays well and if the Jaguars’ defense plays up to their potential, Jacksonville will put a scare into the two top teams in the AFC. But first they have to get past the Bills. With LaSean McCoy questionable for the game, I think the odds favor Jacksonville. If he is healthy the Bills have a chance. Without McCoy there will be too much resting on Tyrod Taylor.
Jaguars 24 Bills 14

Carolina at New Orleans
Sunday 4:40pm on Fox

On paper these teams seem to be evenly match. Digging deeper we find that the Panthers’ leading rusher is their quarterback. With Cam Newton under center I guess I should not be surprised. While this might work in the regular season I suspect it will become a liability in the playoffs. With the Saints bringing a much better balance on offense a lot will rest on the Panthers’ defense. I think they will play well enough to keep this one close. In the end I think Drew Brees will find a way to get all of his weapons working, leading to a Saints win.
Saints 20 Panthers 14

Enjoy the start of the playoffs this weekend. I think the NFL has served up what should be a very entertaining round of playoffs.